Yes, I've got a very nice and distinct black ash cross on my forehead. It's so distinct that the priest who made it was admiring it afterwards, and others were commenting on how it matched my black outfit. I've decided to give up playing the Wii (sob!) for Lent, along with meditating every day. And starting tomorrow I will be going to bed by 10:30 no matter what. In all three cases its not about punishing myself, but rather opening up space in my life to listen to God and myself.
I also want to listen to more Sibelius, damn you Alex Ross!